Bernadette, where do I even begin? Born on Sept. 22, 1990, she graced this world with a presence so profound that her memory will forever echo in the hearts of those who knew her. Although her life was short, it was filled with boundless promise and unforgettable moments that we will cherish eternally. She was a light in our lives, and her legacy will forever reign.
Bernadette was intelligent, kind, loving, and beautiful — a combination of virtues that made her extraordinary. She loved with every beat of her heart, and the love she shared was priceless. Time spent with her was a treasure beyond measure, her presence a gift that cannot be replaced. She poured her love into her family, cherishing her grandmother, whom she lovingly called "mom," and holding her mother, Loretta Gurule, and her siblings, Eileen and Joey, close to her heart. She shared a special bond with her cousins, who were her first best friends, and her aunties and uncles, with whom she created an endless tapestry of joyful memories.
The bond she shared with her cousins was forged in the laughter of childhood. Together, they played Barbies, battled levels in Super Mario, and celebrated birthdays and holidays. Among their many shared traditions, the Fourth of July held a special place in their hearts. Watching Bernadette's face light up at the sight of fireworks was nothing short of magical, a memory that still brings a bittersweet smile. Her happiness and sense of completeness in those moments were unmatched, and there was no greater joy than seeing her so radiant.
Bernadette's life was not without challenges. Born with Muscular Dystrophy, doctors predicted she would not live past the age of 16. Bernadette defied those odds with a resilience and strength that inspired everyone around her. She lived and flourished, surpassing every expectation and proving that her spirit was far greater than any obstacle placed in her path. Her determination and attitude were remarkable, leaving those who met her in awe. If you knew Bernadette, you knew a force of nature—unstoppable, unyielding, and full of life.
Despite her condition, Bernadette embraced life with open arms. She refused to let boundaries define her. Together, we shared countless adventures—whether I carried her, pushed her on the swings, or helped her down a slide. Roller-skating, playing, exploring—whatever it was, we did it together. For her, there were no limits. Her joy was infectious, her laughter a melody that lifted spirits. She made every moment special, embracing life as though it could never hold her back.
I am endlessly thankful for every second I had with her. Every adventure we embarked on, every obstacle she overcame, and every smile she shared with me is etched into my soul. Bernadette lived a life of courage, joy, and boundless love. She was more than a sister, cousin, or friend — she was a miracle. Her spirit teaches us to live boldly, to love endlessly, and to appreciate every precious moment.
Bernadette, you are deeply missed. Your laughter, your spirit, your light — they remain with us, guiding us as we carry your memory forward. We will never forget the lessons you taught us, the warmth you gave us, and the love you shared so freely. You will forever be a part of us, a symbol of resilience and unconditional love. Rest in peace, dear Bernadette. You were and always will be one of a kind.
The family and friends of Bernadette are respectfully invited to attend a celebration of her life at 300 Richardson Ave., Alamosa, CO 81101 at 11 a.m. on June 26, 2025.
The care of arrangements has been entrusted to Romero Funeral Home of Alamosa.
